As a mother, you’re always putting your children first. Alone time, date nights with your partner and quality time spent with your friends are nothing but distant memories. But what if it doesn’t have to be like this? What if claiming some time for yourself could actually benefit both you and your family?

It’s time to schedule in some ‘me time’ and luckily for you, there’s a number of reasons why you should! Read on to discover 5 reasons why the occasional break away from the hectic life of being a Mum is important.

#1 A step towards independence

Do you want to raise strong and self-sufficient individuals that can go out into this world and get what they so desire? It may be difficult at first, but spending some time apart from your child is important for them to gain confidence and independence. Hiring a babysitter for a few hours occasionally can help with this difficult but necessary learning experience. You don’t want your children to be 18 and still need your help to cut their sandwiches!

#2 Give a good example for your children

You are the most important role model for your children, they observe and pick up on everything you do! As a result, it is important for them to see how you take care of yourself and how you deal with others. It may sound crazy, but by taking time for yourself and occasionally giving priority to your relationships with your partner or friends, it will set a very good example for your kids. It will demonstrate a healthy balance for your children.

#3 Positive impact on family life

Did you know that by having an evening of rest, it can have an incredibly positive impact on family life? A few hours of rest can fully recharge you so that you are ready to tackle all the daily tasks of life. Furthermore, a moment of peace gives you positive energy which you can use to do something extra fun with your children. It also allows you to take a step back and realise how to and how to not deal with the stress of everyday life.

#4 A good influence

A good babysitter can have a wonderful influence on your child. A babysitter allows your child to socialise with strangers in a safe and familiar environment. They will learn how to deal with and interact with people from outside of the family and this will assist in the development of your children’s social skills and confidence.

#5 You deserve it!

Being a Mother is incredibly challenging and demanding! You’re always busy and tackling a never-ending ‘to-do’ list. As a result, it is important to create a moment for yourself. Go to the cinema with friends, enjoy a romantic dinner with your partner or just go for a walk to enjoy some time away from the daily hustle and bustle of life. You deserve it!

This article was written in collaboration with Ines Fenner from Babysits, the babysitting community of Singapore.

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